Lady Winchelsea was shrewd, crude, and childless (majorly inspirational). Personally, i love her works and she’d be one of the dinner guests at my dead / famous people dinner party.

Her complete biography and works -https://digital.library.upenn.edu/women/finch/finch-anne.html 

How we are fallen! fallen by mistaken rules,

And Education's more than Nature's fools;

Debarred from all improvements of the mind,

And to be dull, expected and designed;

And if someone would soar above the rest,

With warmer fancy, and ambition pressed,

So strong the opposing faction still appears,

The hopes to thrive can ne'er outweigh the fears.